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Hey folks! Welcome to the homepage for The Sex Actually Podcast. My name is Dave Neal, I'm a comedian and hopeless romantic. My cohost is my girlfriend, Tasha Courtney, a model and media personality. Together we interview comedians and other relationship gurus, talking about their sex and dating lives.

We want you to get laid and be happy. If relationships are your thing, we want you to have a fulfilling experience. If gallivanting around town is more your cup of tea, then we have some stories to share. Download all past episodes to your mobile device, and stream us on your commute to work, or while you do the laundry. Either way, put us in your ears.

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Apr 5, 2014

This episode of You Up we are again joined by The Social Man, Jonathan Christian Hudson.

Jonathan brought some questions from guys asking how to text a girl the day after sex. 

Dealing with relationships in today's social media world requires effort and thought. Whether it is how to use Tinder, getting a good rating on Lulu, which dating sites are effective, (okcupid, JDate, or how to follow up with engaging text messages, we cover it all on this modern relationship podcast. 

Last week's episode deals with 'slut shaming' and how society treats women differently than men. Check out old episodes that include Bobby Lee from MadTv discussing how to get out of the friend zone.

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 You Up The Podcast candidly discusses dating, relationships, sex and understanding members of the opposite sex through honest and funny dialogue. We are comics and hopeless romantics. Past episodes talk about one night stands, slut shaming, date rape, feminism, tinder, chemistry and match makng,lulu, okcupid, hinge, how to give blow jobs, social media game, using dating sites effectively, AND SO MUCH MORE. With over 40 hours of advice, stories and industry interviews, you're sure to learn and laugh. Past guests include Bobby Lee, Christian Hudson (The Social Man), and other pick up artists, authors, dating coaches and relationship gurus! Comics join us to candidy share their dating experiences. They perform regularly all around the country, including clubs like The Comedy Store, The Laugh Factory, Gotham Comedy Club, The Improv, The Comedy Cellar.